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Situationships and Survival Strategies


I’m Not Playing Hard to Get, I’m Just Tired
I’m not hard to get. I’m just hard to impress, hard to schedule, and mentally exhausted from decades of dating dysfunction.
Vanessa Gillier
4 days ago2 min read


The Great Hydration Hustle
I may not be glowing — but I am hydrated-ish™.
Vanessa Gillier
Feb 262 min read


Healing Didn’t Make Me a Better Person, But It Did Make Me a Better Judge of Character
Not my circus. Not my emotionally unavailable clown.
Vanessa Gillier
Feb 122 min read


Swipe Left on Insanity
You are wiser now. Less tolerant of bullshit. Your peace is non-negotiable.
Vanessa Gillier
Jan 293 min read


Midlife Situationships in the 5G Era
Midlife situationships are weird, part emotional window shopping, and part dating with a return policy.
Vanessa Gillier
Jan 152 min read


Coping Mechanisms, Madness, and Midlife Mantras
Methods for managing the hormonal hellscape of menopause with grace, grit, and gasolina.
Vanessa Gillier
Jan 82 min read
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